Fixed Stars and Asteroids in Synastry
1983.1 真幻魔大戦(5) イベント・ムービー
Here’s a hot take for you:
Fixed stars do not really matter in synastry. And, even worse - in the natal or composite chart, they only matter if they are conjunct a personal planet within about a 2-degree orb – (that is, unless you are using the original methods of calculating fixed star prominences using their heliacal risings and acronychal settings with a paran map). Too many times have I heard someone say something like their Moon is opposing some [fixed star] – it just does not work like that, I'm afraid. Fixed stars are important in the natal/composite chart, but! they should only be consulted if within the 2-degree orb or if (using the traditional method) they are culminating, rising, or setting with one of your personal planets or luminaries. In the original methods, fixed stars were used primarily for mundane astrological applications.
With regards to asteroids, they hardly matter at all in the natal chart but they can shed some light in synastry. However, I do not believe they should be consulted before the big 6 and the big 6 aspects. There is a tendency to search for more and more obscure factors in a chart to provide evidence or prove something the seeker already believes – when the truth is already right there in the chart. Most, if not all questions about a relationship can be answered by major big 6 aspects and house overlays – yes, even past life or twin flame connections, if you believe in that. Consult the asteroids afterwards, for additional confirmation.
(For example, the asteroid "Destin" was making quite a splash in Synastry groups for a while, I guess due to its similarity to the word "Destiny" – but it's named after Ema Destinn (1878–1930), a Czech opera singer.
There is an increasing reliance on minor asteroids and obscure fixed stars as a form of astrological wish-fulfillment. Rather than confronting a difficult Saturn square or Pluto conjunction in synastry, people are reaching for asteroids like Eros, Psyche, Karma, Juno, or Hypnos to soften or override what is clearly visible. This kind of cherry-picking makes astrology less useful and less honest. Respectfully, gently and lovingly: you’re fooling yourself.
But the good news is, asteroids or fixed stars are not worthless. Some of them can offer poignant psychological insights or thematic depth - I always think of them as the “icing on top” - it lends a little extra flavor to what the Big 6 is already telling you. Juno, for instance, can speak to relationship expectations and ideals. Eros and Psyche can add a layer of mythic resonance to a bond. But these are best understood as supplemental, not foundational. You don't build a house out of throw pillows, and you shouldn't build an interpretation on tertiary points.
In synastry, people sometimes find asteroid connections that feel eerily spot-on – like someone's Karma asteroid conjunct your South Node. That might be a compelling indicator of karmic themes or past-life ties. But it should never be used to dismiss hard truths shown by Saturn, Pluto, Neptune, or harsh angles between the Moon and Mars. The primary synastry contacts always tell the story first. Everything else is nuance.
As for fixed stars, they are ancient and profound symbols, but they are not always relevant, even in personal astrology. Their meanings are often tied to mythology, royal portents, and omens of fate. When a fixed star like Regulus or Algol is conjunct the Sun, Moon, or Ascendant, it can amplify certain traits or bring dramatic life themes into play. But these are rare configurations. Not every fixed star reference in your chart means something, though they are quite interesting to read about, especially if you are interested in the history of astrology or the way it used to be applied during the middle ages. For this, I can’t recommend Bernadette Brady’s work enough - her insights have been invaluable to me.
Anyway, let’s talk about how we CAN use the main asteroids in relationship astrology to provide a little flavor to our synastry charts.
🟣 Juno (3) – Commitment, Marriage, Relationship Ideals
Conjunct personal planets: Indicates alignment in relationship expectations and ideals. Juno conjunct Venus or Moon is especially powerful for emotional and romantic resonance.
Square or opposition: Clashes in values or definitions of commitment.
Juno conjunct Juno: Strong compatibility in long-term partnership goals.
🔥 Eros (433) – Erotic Desire, Passion, Chemistry
Conjunct Mars or Venus: Sexual chemistry and raw attraction.
Conjunct Moon: Emotional eroticism; desire and nurturing blend.
Eros conjunct Eros: Mutual attraction with a mythic or fated feeling.
💘 Psyche (16) – Soul Connection, Emotional Vulnerability
Conjunct Sun or Moon: Deep soul recognition.
Conjunct Venus: A blend of love and soul union; highly romantic.
Psyche conjunct Psyche: Spiritual mirroring, often linked to “twin flame” language.
🌠 Karma (3811) – Fate, Past-Life Ties, Cause and Effect
Conjunct South Node: Past-life connection with unfinished business.
Conjunct Saturn: Shared karmic lessons, often heavy or binding.
Karma conjunct personal planets: Indicates a significant relationship meant for growth.
💍 Union (1585) – Coming Together, Relationship Unity
Conjunct Sun, Moon, or Venus: Desire for togetherness; a strong indicator of unity or even marriage.
Union conjunct Vertex: Fated meetings and feeling destined to be together.
🧠 Pallas Athena (2) – Wisdom, Strategy, Intellectual Bond
Conjunct Mercury: Intellectual synergy and mutual respect for ideas.
Pallas conjunct Sun: Admiration for each other’s mind or problem-solving approach.
🌹 Amor (1221) – Affection, Romantic Love
Conjunct Venus or Moon: Warmth, affection, and emotional caring.
Amor conjunct Amor: Deep shared capacity for gentle, affectionate love.
💫 Valentine (447) – Romantic Expression, Idealized Love
Conjunct personal planets: Romantic gestures and emotional idealism.
With Neptune: Can feel like a fairytale but be careful of illusion.
🧚 Angel (11911) – Spiritual Connection, Guidance
Conjunct Moon or Sun: Feeling protected or divinely guided in the relationship.
With Chiron or Neptune: Spiritual healing themes.
⚖️ Interpreting Synastry Asteroid Aspects: Tips
Keep the orb tight (1–2° max).
Personal planets and angles (Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, ASC/DSC) matter most.
Always contextualize the asteroid within the whole chart! Don’t use it to override Saturn, Pluto, or Neptune issues.
Exact conjunctions are most powerful, followed by tight trines or oppositions. Major aspects only.
Multiple repeating themes are more meaningful than a single asteroid hit.
Balance myth and reality – asteroids add color, not structure.
